Ok so we headed up the GP and explained the problem of Miles anxiety issues and he kinda fobbed us off - i understand what i meant he thought Miles was young and he'll grow out of it but i was the same as a kid and only grew out of it as an adult and had a miserable time as a kid because of it.
Anyway we rang the health nurse back and she has given us a number to call - there is a talk on about how to deal wiht kids whith etreme anxiety issues - but we just missed it! So waiting to find otu when the next one is on. Its more about us learning how to react and resond to him and help himm feel less anxious than about Miles doing anything really.
god its awful i really hate that he has got this defective gene or whatever the hell it is from me and is struggling with seperation axiety and anxious in groups too - poor lil'man. I must admit i didnt realise how bad it was until i had Greta and i see how very differnt to him she is. She is the one usually left to fend for herself while Miles is the one i have to carry around when we go outdoors or even around the hosue as he can't bear to be in a seperate room from me.. thank goodness Greta doesnt seem to have it either its bloody hardwork to deal with a child who cant bear to be seperated form you - not even so i can have a pe on the toilet haha he has to come with me and even sits on Jonathans knee while he is pooping if im not home as he cant handle having to stand on his own for the amount of time it takes J to poop! Oh gosh its crazy - All my friends and family say they dont envy me as they see how demanding of time Miles is and how drained it makes me and even Greta too has she had the seperation anxiety but not the problem with growds, so i have to hold them both all the time - but you know what, he is SO worth all the trouble - he is such an amazing gentle, loving little sould id say i wouldnt change him but id like to make him less anxious so he feels happier himself.
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