Had a good chat with Jonathan. He had a good think about what i was saying and feeling and we have come up wth a few plans.
the inlaws are coming over for a visit in jan for quite a few weeks... then i will fly back to the UK with the kids in july for a month or so and jonathan will stay here.
i don't know why we didnt think of that before - a work mate of Jonathans, his wife just flew back to Europe with their 2 kids for 3 weeks while the hubby stays back and works... makes so much sense for me to do that as i dont work and they kids are home with me all the time so we can just go wherever we choose.
He suggested we go this year but Greta would be a little hard on a long haul flight, so next year just before she turns 3... then i will go back every year or 2 with the kids.. seems to make so much more sense - why didnt we do it before - i dont know. i can stay with my parents so it wont cost half as much as when all of us go back as we have to stay in hotels then.. and i can borrow my dads car - and of course Jonathan wont loose money by not working.
So 14 months to go :0)
but before that the in laws are coming to visit in jan for 2 or 3 months... so that will be great.
im glad i got it all off my chest - i realyl dont want to leave here, i just miss people - but getting the families over here and sorted out dates for that (my paretns will come out the following Jan they said ) and working out that i can go back too, on my own with the kids, i feel better knowing that :)
Ok off to unpack the grocery shop :)
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